The Way of Love
One possible rendition of
1 Corinthians 13:4-6 in the Workplace
Is it naive to imagine that loving leadership would make the world a betterplace?
Is it foolish to believe that more love in the workplace will make those places resonant and productive?
Is it a waste of my time and a death knell to believe that love can really make a difference in this hard, harsh world?
Apparently the Apostle Paul thought love will rock the world. And without love, no matter what else you have... success, impressive resume, nice corner office, fancy title, desired benefits... they really don't matter. You can find this beautiful poster (here, check it out). Maybe having something like this framed in your place of work will be a good reminder.
Maybe we each need to think about what it means for us to practice Love in the Marketplace of life. Here is my offering.
Love is patient.
I give people the time and space that I would like to have when I am stressed, tired, busy and beind.
Love is kind.
Lots of little touches, thoughts, considerations and blessings, especially to those who are in need, those who are overlooked, those who are considered the least in the workplace. No one will fear rudeness or rashness from me.
Love does not envy or dishonor others.
Instead of competing with others or being threatened by them, I value them and know I need them. It is not a zero sum world. I value my peers and colleagues. I guard their dignity. I lift them up.
Love does not boast, love isn't proud and love isn't self-seeking.
It is not about me, it is not about me being noticed or winning or beating out the other. The way of gratitude and humility are the best antidotes to the way of pride.
Love is not easily angered and it does not keep a record of wrongs.
I avoid arguments, no-win situations, creating conflict where it is not needed or productive. I don't hold grudges. People don't have to worry about my temper or over-reaction. I am calm and gentle.
Love does not delight in evil but rejoices in truth.
Virtue, all of it and all the time is a joy for me. Character and morality are valued. I avoid even the appearance of evil. I am willing to take a stand against what is wrong, even it it costs me something. I speak the truth in love. I keep the truthful ways in love. And I am willing, as neeed, to practice "tough love from a tender heart."
Love never fails.
And I go the distance. I don't just do this one day, or one week, or for a New Year's Resolution. This is a way of being and living in the world of work. With my friends and colleagues. With my customers and vendors.
Brian K. Rice
Leadership ConneXtions International
www.lci.typepad.com
Be sure to re-read this book sometime soon. Love is how we become real and love is how we help others become real . . .
You may also want to read 1 John and reflect and pray about love . . .
