One of the significant metaphors of Chrsitian leadership is The Leader as Sufferer.
Now, I don't know about you, but this particular metaphor doesn't exactly thrill my heart. I don't wake up most days and think about the privilege of suffering for the sake of Christ. I prefer to avoid the idea that included in the "essence" of Christian leadership is the reality of suffering.
So, when my friend and Leadership ConneXtions partner John Hilliard shared some of his thoughts on suffering, I asked him to jot them down so we could share them with you. So, here are John's thoughts (just slightly edited):
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I have recently been touched, or better yet, nudged by God to consider the possibilities in "embracing adversity"... in actually welcoming those tough, challenging, frustrating experiences that I would normally fight or flee from.
As I have been mentoring leaders, I have sensed they share a common perspective of looking at difficulties as being bad. In working with them, God has prompted me to have them inquire as to whether there is a different way to see these difficult situations and relationships. When I do this, I see their confused looks and anxiousness.
As I have considered these things in my own times of silence, solitude and reading and study, I have become more convinced that "embracing adversity" is the way of servant leadership and the way to richer, deeper living.
I even came to the point where I asked God, "If you know that some adversity will bring growth in my life, I am willing for that to happen." I am not seeking for the adversity, but I am willing for it to happen in my life.
God is faithful and over the last three weeks, since I prayed that prayer, He has brought a number of difficult things into my life (many more than what would be normal in an average week). One of the key threads in all this is that these difficulties are ones that I cannot easily resolve in my own strength.
I am asking for three things from God as I go into this new season of my relationship with Him.
ONE: How is God showing me He loves me in the midst of this adversity?
TWO: What is He inviting me to experience in this process?
THREE: What is it that He wants to change in my heart right now?
It is an amazing new perspective in my relationship to God and a very new paradigm in my way of looking at that which I used to see as a negative thing to be avoided. If a leader chooses to go down this road of "embracing adversity," they will need to be prepared to encounter God and self in a new way.
John Hilliard
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John shared with me a few of the difficulties that have come into his life in recent weeks. I was struck by his peacefulness about those things. He was not stressed out or anxious in light of these adversities.
If any of you want to read a good little book, one of LCI's Core Leadership Books, read Henri Nouwen's little book, In the Name of Jesus.
Grace and Shalom to all of you as you embrace the adversities that are a part of your leadership calling.
Brian Rice