First - who do you really trust these days?
And number two . . .
how much do people trust you?
I am not sure which questions is the harder one.
Your ability to trust
and your willingness to trust.
It says a lot about you.
How much do people trust you,
also says a lot about you.
The leadership gurus tell us that trust is crucial for leadership.
When you don't trust someone, it is all but impossible for you to lead them. You may coerce them, control them and you will conceal things from them. That IS NOT leadership. They may obey you, they may comply, they may act as a follower - but it is just a show.
Leaders have to learn to trust, to give trust, to take risks of trust, and to be gracious and forgiving as hard lessons are learned.
When people don't trust you, well to say it bluntly - they won't be around for long. Or if they are around, they won't be very involved.
Here is an ENORMOUS REALITY for our day and age.
TRUST levels are at record low points when it comes to the public and its leaders.
Don't assume you have anyone's trust. If you have it, don't assume you will always have it. It is a precious thing, hard won and easily lost. Just consistent love, grace, integrity and respect - day after day - is the way. And even when the leader does this well, it does not guarantee that broken, hurting, suspicious, cynical followers will trust you. Still . . . leaders do what they can to create the "possibility of trust."
And on the simple level of leaders and their friends and colleagues - who are you trusting and who is trustworthy and vice versa?
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Brian K. Rice
Leadership ConneXtions International
brianrice@lcileaders.org