Leaders Who Care (and the Followers Who Believe Them)
Caring, it is what life is all about. We talk about professional care, health care, home care aids, pastoral care and so on.
Here is a paraphrase of a well known quote:
Followers don't care how much a leader knows until they really know how much the leader truly cares.
On June 10 I did a post on caring and empathy and while reading Behar's book about Starbucks (see the sidebar- CURRENT READS) it really hit me again. Caring is vital to leadership.
Jim Collins talks about moving from good to great. Howard Behar wold say that "caring" is part of that move and part of the essence of great leadership.
When I read Behar, I think he either has had some significant Christian worldview imprinted on him at some point, or that he is just the blessed recipient of an unusual amount of common grace and natural revelation.
Behar talks about the leader caring for others proactively (do it first), unconditionally (whether it is returned or not) and sacrifically (take the heat and take the bullet aimed at others). Hey - that is a three point message right there. Although the best messages are lived for a season before they are spoken.
Caring for others in this way is at the heart of great people leadership and great organizational leadership. Behar thinks that MBA programs ought to offer Love and Caring 101 in their curriculum.
The point of this is to do some reflection and assessment:
- Do you really care for the people you lead?
- In what ways do your actions line up with your answer?
- Who don't you care for?
- And - if you asked those around you (and if they would give honest answers) would they name you as a caring leader?
It is important for leaders to remember that the definition of care changes somewhat (much like the Love Language idea) from person to person. We have to be "careful" to understand what others really need in terms of care.
Maybe it is time to come up with your Personal, 2008 Gift of Caring Project.
Brian Rice










