I asked this question about the Road Less Traveled?
What did you sign up for? What did you sign up for when you became a Christian?
I think many of us (perhaps most of us) sign up for the wrong thing. We sign up for success. We sign up for happiness. We sign up for the Jesus advantage that helps us get ahead in life. We sign up to have problems fixed, hurts healed, needs met . . .
We sign up for Jesus to help us and bless us as we walk, not in the Way of Jesus, but in the Way of ___________ (fill in your name). And then we wonder why our Christianity is not working.
Gary Thomas is EXTREMELY HELPFUL on this issue. He has written two books - one is Sacred Marriage and the other is Sacred Parenting. Here is a key premise he has for both books. Marriage and parenting are two contexts that Jesus uses to make us holy. They are the contexts that create the ongoing situations for us to make decisions that build our character, change us from the inside out through repentance and prayer, teach us faith and surrender and make us like Christ.
Especially when marriage and parenting is not going well, when it is tough, that is when Christ can work the greatest. The hard times are the times for most fruitful change.
So - if the reason you signed up for marriage was for the other person to make you happy, meet your needs, "fulfill you," etc. - what are you going to do when that isn't happening? You'll bail because it is not what you signed up for.
What happens if the reason you signed up for a particular job was to be fulfilled, successful, get ahead, etc. - what are you going to do when that isn't happening? You'll bail, because it's not what you signed up for.
What happens if you sign up for leadership to get your way, to get recognition, to get results, to get satisfaction, etc. - and that isn't happening? You'll bail, because that is not what you signed up for!
What happens if you signed up for Jesus to make you happy, bless you, to give you the easy life - and that isn't happening? You'll bail!
All of life - marriage, parenting, being single, working, being unemployed, and every other thing you can think of - is for the purpose of being a Sacred Context where the formation of your soul and the remaking of your life can occur. That is what you should sign up for.
And the delightfully paradoxical result is that when this happens, you discover, not mere happiness, but deep joy!
The Way of Jesus is the narrow way, the good way, and the less traveled way. Nevertheless, it is the way we must learn to walk.
I have attached a PDF that is a prayer of an unknown Confederate Soldier who discovered the Way of Christ.
Download ConfederateSoldierPrayer.pdf
May we who are called to lead, learn how to walk that same way with integrity.
So - what did you sign up for?
And do you need to re-sign up for the right thing?
Brian Rice