THEY LIKE JESUS, but they don't like the church.
Hmmm.
I have a bunch of observations.
The first and most superficial: So do I! And I am also very sympathetic with the fact that when Christians who have gathered together in communities called churches act in wierd, legalistic, judgmental, intolerant, "un-Christlike ways" it makes it difficult to dialogue with the culture about Jesus. Unfortunately, I've met Christians like that in the institutional church, house church, radical church, and "para-church." Please don't think that the only turn-offs to Christianity are found in the institutional church.
Second and a little deeper: The church I don't like is the church as it actually is and not the church as it is meant to be. The church as it is meant to be would be a beautiful, radiant, holy, glorious bride. It would be hard not to like that church. Unless you are an uncouth, self-centered groom! The church I don't like is a church composed of people as they actually are and not people as they are meant to become.
Third: Do they really like Jesus? Or do they just like their "preferred, probably pretty uninformed image of Jesus? Would they really like the Jesus who tells them to sell everything and follow Him? Who says, "take up your cross and follow me?" Who models the way of suffering service? Who tells them to love their enemies? Who says be perfect?
Fourth: There were a lot of people who met Jesus and didn't like Him. Some didn't like Him because of the things mentioned in #3. Some didn't like Him because the way of Jesus was a pretty different way than their way and Jesus seemed to be rather intolerant when He said He was THE way. I think the same is just as true today. Many (even most) people wouldn't really like the real Jesus... even if we think we are being creative and culturally cool in presenting Jesus so they will like Him.
Fifth: Is the point really to like Jesus? I thought the point was to love, worship, follow, obey, surrender to, repent before, trust and live/die for Jesus? That seems a far different reality than "liking Jesus." And in fact, this is part of the reason they won't like Jesus, because adventure in liking Jesus is not really the point. I don't think Jesus says "liking me is what life is all about."
Sixth: I suspect that somewhere along the line, Jesus wants me to to learn to love the church, even as it is with all its failures, flaws and brokenness, instead of what it will one day be when Christ completes and perfects His people/bride. (Remember the old line - I love the world, it is just people I can't stand? I think Jesus wants us to grow out of this and be incaranational and love the church as it actually is and not just as it is meant to be.)
Seventh: Fortunately, Jesus really, really, really likes the church. Alright, I'll says it - loves the church, even when it looks a lot more like an adultress than a bride.
Eight: In this post, I really haven't interacted with the substance of this book, just its cool, creative, culturally catchy title and thesis.
Brian Rice